So –– what's your relationship like?
Relationships 101 is a series of seminars sponsored by Residential Life. They will be across campus to discuss sex and relationships.
The first seminar of the series entitled "Sex Like a Porn Star?" was held on Jan. 12 in Baynes Residence Hall. About 20 –30 students attended.
The objectives of the first seminar were to show how hip hop music and pornography share similar themes and to discuss the components of a healthy sexual relationship.
"Do people really think about this in the heat of the moment?" said Alan Thompson, jazz studies freshman.
The seminar allowed students to discuss what they perceive as sexual expectations and behaviors in relationships. Students were also able to express what feelings the lyrics in different songs gave them.
The songs that meeting facilitators, Krystal George and Kevin Harrell, played were by Travis Porter and Raheem DeVaughn.
The two songs were on the opposite ends of sexual content delivery in music.
During the discussion, George and Harrell asked questions that kept students engaged.
"I never really thought about how much hip hop in media plays a role with the porn industry," said Thompson.
Students also discussed the meaning and importance of trust, freedom, respect, equality, and relationship communication.
According to George and Harrell these are the components that make up a healthy sexual relationship.
During the discussion, the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancies by utilizing oral contraceptives and condoms was mentioned.
"Arm yourself about the knowledge of sex before intercourse," said Harrell.
Condoms were available for students and provided by Project SAFE (Save A Fellow Eagle) at the seminar.
"The goal of Project SAFE is to educate students about safe sex and to get them tested," said Shawn Swinnie president of Project Safe.
The Relationships 101 series has other seminar topics such as "Sexting, Seducing, and Cybering: Is your drive in overload" and "No Never Means Yes."
The relationship series runs until March 2. Students can talk about real issues couples face daily.
"It was very beneficial and an eye-opener," said Thompson.
Relationship 101 tackles serious issues concerning sexuality and students.
Attending the meetings could allow students the chance to know what the opposite sex is thinking and also to get informed.































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