Over the past few months, the names of Alicia Keys and Fantasia Barrino have been tarnished. Mention one of their names and you'll hear: "OMG! Home wreckers." And, "I have lost all respect for them." And, "They are so stupid." And, "If it was me, I would not even be in that situation." Guess what, ladies and gents? You are not them, nor do you know every detail of the situation.